
Similarities and Differences
A quick, low-prep icebreaker where staff mingle and discover one similarity and one difference with each colleague they meet.

A quick, low-prep icebreaker where staff mingle and discover one similarity and one difference with each colleague they meet. It runs all day alongside a PD or works as a standalone opener.
Why try it
This activity keeps conversations going naturally throughout a PD day, without requiring staff to sit in a circle or answer on the spot. Staff move at their own pace, meet people across grade levels and departments, and leave knowing a little more about the people they work with.
What's included
Browse the printables included with this resource.
Instructions
Set up the challenge
Print one tracking sheet per staff member and explain the goal: meet as many colleagues as possible, and for each person, write down one thing they have in common and one thing that's different. The person who fills in the most rows wins.
Let it run
Staff mingle and fill out their sheets throughout the PD. This works as a morning opener or as an all-day challenge with a prize at the end.
Announce a winner
At a natural stopping point, ask who completed the most rows and give a small prize. A quick shout-out works just as well as a tangible reward.
Activity variations
Adapt to fit your school's vibe, budget, and setting.
Short version
Run it as a 15-minute opener at the start of a staff meeting. Set a timer and see how many rows staff can fill in before time is up.
Department challenge
Give each department one shared sheet. The first team to fill in every row wins. This version encourages collaboration alongside connection.
Built by Educators, for School Leaders
This resource was created in collaboration with passionate educators and school leaders who believe in the power of intentional connection.
Prophet Gaspard







